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[QUOTE=SophiaM]Oh, no, GE, I was not even close to suggesting that you sleep with more than one guy at a time. Just meant that the Asian attorney is probably not worth your time if he also said he's looking for friends with benefits type deal. I don't know..these men must have a lot of hutzpa to just come out and say that. It would be a turn off to me for sure.

So, did you email Raj back after he sent you that last email? I hope he asks you out for this weekend; that would be great![/QUOTE]

I was wondering too what the latest update with Raj is...have you talked since you called and left him a message? I had the same thought as Sophia that it's awfully blunt for these men to admit right off the bat that they are looking for only physical relationships, but then I wondered if you came across them on the intimate site? Are you still looking for guys on the dating part of that site and the most famous dating site with that gorgeous picture of you? :D I think you should definitely keep your options open and keep dating around...it's wonderful that you've found someone who excites you and gives you those butterflies, I can tell that you like Raj more than anyone you've met in quite some time. I really hope everything works out for the best...the smartest advice I have is to keep doing what you're doing, but try not to stress so much about each move and get yourself nervous. Despite what a lot of experts and books say, you don't have to make every single move right to "catch" a man--honestly, if a guy wants to be with you, you'd have to screw up pretty bad to chase him away. So not calling or calling back too soon or reading his email the same day etc. isn't going to make the slightest bit of difference. As you know, I completely understand where you are coming from being just fine with a FWB relationship and not necessarily getting emotionally involved. But after reading this thread I'm a little confused as to what you want to happen--it kind of sounds that while in general you'd be okay with a FWB relationship, now that you've met someone who really blows you away, you might be wanting Raj as your steady boyfriend? Is that accurate? I would definitely suggest that you do some thinking about what you want to come out of that particular relationship--while I understand and share your general dating philosophy, sometimes we alter our plans when someone special comes along, and it seems that may be the case with Raj. Thinking through exactly how you'd like things to proceed with him, ideally, will likely help both you and your friends here advise you most effectively and help you proceed with a sense of confidence, self-assurance, and purpose. I'm very interested to hear more about your goals for Raj and dating other guys, etc...keep us posted, please??





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