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My ex wife was like that. She would wear short shorts or miniskirts and most of the time wouldn't wear underwear. She would sit in provocative ways when my friends were over and it drove me crazy. I would beg her to go and at least put on some panties. We had many arguments over it. She would always pick the sluttiest thing in the store when she went shopping. She was prettiest when she wasn't wearing that kind of stuff. But she didn't realise it. Still doesn't. Now she's fat and wrinkly and still dresses like she did when she was 19. See, the thing is, most men want a modest woman. They don't want her to go out all flashy and dressed to attract. It makes them feel like they maybe don't have her full attention and that she's looking to find someone else. They want the sexy clothes and immodest behaviour for themselves only. Some men are different, but it's a good general rule.
I see your point, but I think it's splitting hairs to say that your skirt is short, but not too short. If a man turns his head around, then it's probably shorter than normal. I'm not insecure or jealous, but it gets aggravating when you can't walk by a man with your woman without everyone breaking their necks and staring. If I'm with her all day, that could be 100 stares! If you just wanted to turn your boyfriend on, you can put on or take off anything you want in the bedroom. And it's nothing worth whipping a-- over if he doesn't say anything, but it IS disrespect if a man is bold enough to perve on my woman if he can't do it discreetly enough for me to not notice him.
Guys are gonna look at girls regardless. I can't even go out in a sweatsuit without guys whistling or hitting on me.

The only way I would not get hit is is the wear a burqa - and hell will freeze over before I would do something like that. The whole female attire and male response issue brings up deeper issue of male behavior and we should address it NOT with female attire adjustment but with teaching men that its NOT okay to yell profanities at a girl just because she happens to be pretty, have nice legs, big boobs. Hey, a glance is fine, but leering, taunting and touching is NOT okay.

But, If your boyfriend doensn't like his girl to get male attention, then he ought to opt for a plainer girl.
:) [QUOTE=BigFan]I see your point, but I think it's splitting hairs to say that your skirt is short, but not too short. If a man turns his head around, then it's probably shorter than normal. I'm not insecure or jealous, but it gets aggravating when you can't walk by a man with your woman without everyone breaking their necks and staring. If I'm with her all day, that could be 100 stares! If you just wanted to turn your boyfriend on, you can put on or take off anything you want in the bedroom. And it's nothing worth whipping a-- over if he doesn't say anything, but it IS disrespect if a man is bold enough to perve on my woman if he can't do it discreetly enough for me to not notice him.[/QUOTE]


Oh ok, so if i wear jeans and men look , does that mean i should wrap myself up like a muslim lady because my jeans arent appropriate and are tighter then normal?
Let me paint a picture for you, there are the type of skirts that are "in" that you see girls wearing...i dont wear those kind of skirts because they're too short..i do a lot of shopping before i find a mini skirts thats the right length.

2) men will turn around and look at anything that looks decent.
Ive had guys hoonk and stare at me when i was 12 and riding my bike..and i was wearing nothing skanky..unless jeans and a top are considered skanky.

The cold truth is, we live in a world where men no longer hide how desperate they are for a piece of ***..
Wearing a skirt around my boyfriend when we go out, gets him hot for the after part..he cant keep his hands of me..and i know he absolutely loves my legs, which is why i wear them :p
i for one would love guys to be perving on my girlfriend... i mean really, it's the ultimate compliment... if the girl i'm with is desirable to other men, should i get violent, or just bask in the glory of a stunning girl that other guys are drooling over... no question, i say flaunt it... because i'm secure enough to know that she's coming home to me, i don't care how many guys are interested. she cares for me i care for her. thats a connection that a few compliments and stares won't break down. i know it's a bad example because women are not possessions, but ask your boyfriend if he'd "beat the [email protected]" out of a guy because he complimented your boyfriends taste in cars (by looking at his car, or by saying "nice car mate" or whatever) or anything else... bet he'd be pleased. so why is it different with a girl that has made the concious decision to be with HIM.

he sounds healous and insecure... is there any reason he could reasonably be nervous about you leaving him for another guy (have you mentioned anything about old flames etc). otherwise he has issues and should be dropped like a sack of ....
[QUOTE=BigFan]I see your point, but I think it's splitting hairs to say that your skirt is short, but not too short. If a man turns his head around, then it's probably shorter than normal. I'm not insecure or jealous, but it gets aggravating when you can't walk by a man with your woman without everyone breaking their necks and staring. If I'm with her all day, that could be 100 stares! If you just wanted to turn your boyfriend on, you can put on or take off anything you want in the bedroom. And it's nothing worth whipping a-- over if he doesn't say anything, but it IS disrespect if a man is bold enough to perve on my woman if he can't do it discreetly enough for me to not notice him.[/QUOTE]

how's it splitting hairs? to me a short skirt is one that is above the knees... now i wouldn;t call a skirt that sits just above the knees "too short".

what does it hurt you if guys are looking at your girl? be thankful that she has chosen YOU to be with... 100 stares WOOPY DOO. it's a small price to pay to be in a mutual and loving relationship. as for keeping it in the bedroom, it's not like the poster has said that she wants to wear her leather dominatrix attire down the supermarket... it's a skirt... it's an everyday piece of clothing, why should she be restricted to wearing it as a sex aid? personally i was the other way, my ex had a couple of skirts and shirts i LOVED to see her in, but she'd only put them on so i could take them off again... i'd have given anything to spend a whole day watching her in them, instead of taking a glance then being obliged to remove them... it'd drive me nuts in the best possible way.





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