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[QUOTE=LittleRose1982]Wow, you really feel this way? I seem to be the only idiot who disagrees strongly. I don't see why men should always be paying for women. On dates, I can understand. But once you're in a relationship and all the "impressing" is done, the way I see it both people are eating dinner and both people should pay for what they eat! I have always paid for half of everything in all of my relationships. Just recently I've learned that this is not normal! Occasionally, my boyfriend will plan a dinner date for us in which he pays, and it's usually a nice dinner. But if we're just getting chinese food or something, we split it. Or take turns paying.
Anyway, not to get off subject...
There's going to be a fine line you're walking, GE, between keeping a guy on his toes and causing him to throw in the towel. Different guys are going to respond differently when you play hard to get, and it depends on what type of guy you are targeting whether or not it will be successful. Hoop has a good point that you shouldn't ignore calls or return them days later, but rather return them but not give the guy what he's asking for (i.e a date). Be busy. I can definitely see the logic in that! But at the same time, some guys are going to choose not to pursue you if they think they don't have a chance. I think you have to be very good at reading people, that way you will be able to predict exactly which guys it will work on and which ones it won't. But be ready for it to fail a few times.[/QUOTE]

Rose, I KNOW I'm doing the right thing with this guy. I just know. This man is used to having women fall all over him and I want to stand out from the rest.
[QUOTE=greeneyes100]Rose, I KNOW I'm doing the right thing with this guy. I just know. This man is used to having women fall all over him and I want to stand out from the rest.[/QUOTE]


Yes, with this guy I agree. Like I said on the other thread... he asked for FWB so FWB is all you should be willing to offer him. If he wants more, he's got to be a man and step up to the plate and pursue YOU. But for now, you're not always going to be available! And that's GOOD! But if and when he does start to have a hard time resisting you, and you know you've got him where you want him, that's when you show him a little faster turnaround on the phone calls.





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