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Hi. I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 5 months now, but he has yet to touch me (not necessarily in a sexual way, but in general), kiss me, or anything. Most couples are like having sex within at least the first month of their relationship. I've talked to him about it, and he said he wants to, it's just that he's never had an actual girlfriend before and he doesn't know how to start it, and he said he's shy. I know he's shy, because we have been a couple on and off since the 7th grade, and we are now seniors in high school. What I can't understand is that we made out in the 7th grade, but he barely even touches me now! In the 7th grade we were kinda forced to make out, but who cares, we still did it. It's really starting to suck. I'm not saying I'm in this relationship for sex or what not, but I think almost everyone would agree with me that part of a relationship involves sexual activity. The worst part is, I've cheated on him, MORE THAN ONCE! It's not that I want to hurt him, because I like him and he's my boyfriend, but there are times that I really feel the need to release myself, if you know what I mean. The guy I cheated on him with told me I could use him as like an outlet, meaning whenever I'm in the mood for some sexual activity, he'd be there, and he'd never tell my boyfriend about it. This guy is allowing me to do this because, as he said, he thinks I'm hot and I turn him on unlike any other girl, and he's kinda got a thing for me. BUT, him and I would never have a relationship because we are good friends, and that would ruin it. He's also kind of a jock, and likes to get around. I find him really hot, and he turns me on just as bad as I turn him on, and I like him a lot, but like I said, neither of us would want to put up what we have now for a relationship. I know I am killing my boyfriend by cheating on him, but it's so hard when I don't get anything from him. What should I do? If I break up with my boyfriend it could ruin everything, because we've been off and on since the 7th grade, we went to prom last year, and he would be my prom date this year also. I don't want to mess that up. He doesn't know anything about me cheating on him, and he won't find out, but I feel so bad. Yet I can't stop cheating on him because I get sexual cravings, especially for this other guy because he's sooo hot. Help me!!

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