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[QUOTE=dewdrop333]If I ask for the date I pay .. if he asks for the date I offer to pay half. I think it has alot to do with femanism actually .. I do not NEED anyone to take care of me .. provide for me .. I am an able bodied woman and I take care of myself .. if they see it as a sign of agression then they are too much of a wimp to date me anyway.

It sounds too much like dating in the 50s .. women have come too far .. I cant stand the idea of sitting there and it being my job to be cute and provide polite conversation .. I am not a gesha ... I am a strong woman .. I make my own money and can spend it where I see fit and if that means treating a man to a meal .. then thats my choice.

I think it is polite to offer to pay and its not a sign of cheapness on the part of the man if he lets me pay .. I wouldnt offer if I couldnt afford it.[/QUOTE]

I totally agree with you! I don't think it emasculates a man....unless he has really low self esteem....in which case maybe you should find a more secure man!

I believe in being fair when it comes to dating guys tend to take all the brunt of it already....they have to deal with the risk of rejection, planning, etertaining, driving, and paying why can't a women at least be polite and maybe even generous?
[QUOTE=eklektika]I totally agree with you! I don't think it emasculates a man....unless he has really low self esteem....in which case maybe you should find a more secure man!

I believe in being fair when it comes to dating guys tend to take all the brunt of it already....they have to deal with the risk of rejection, planning, etertaining, driving, and paying why can't a women at least be polite and maybe even generous?[/QUOTE]
So you don't think women have to deal with being rejected?





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