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[QUOTE=ur_sunshine]Thanks! I hope things work out for you as well and it's great to hear that you're friends with your ex! it's not awkward, is it??

It's funny that even he told me (when he broke up with me) that he's not that great and he's just an average guy and I can find guys way better than him...of course, he was saying that to make me feel better, but still![/QUOTE]

It's not awkward being friends with this particular ex anymore. The way we are with each other now, I really feel it was miraculous that we were ever able to be something more than just friends at one point. We are not compatible as a couple but I tried so hard at the time to make it work. We talk on the phone probably 4-5 times a week and are more like brother and sister, if anything!

As for your ex saying you can find guys that are better than him, you should! :p Mine said the same to me a couple weeks ago but I didn't want to believe anyone was better than him. But I thought about it this way --- if he was as great as I felt he was, he wouldn't have treated me the way he did. Good guys don't do that to girls they claim they care about. My loser ex brought his new girl home last night (I'm so glad he can move on quickly haha). He told me he wasn't ready to jump right back into a relationship and I think this girl was pushing for one because I heard them arguing about it. I wish I could tell this girl to turn around and walk the other way before he hurts her. But, the truth is, I don't want to see her, I don't want to know what her name is, I shouldn't even care what he does to her. I'm scared of running into them in the building because as much as I don't like what he did to me, I still find him physically attractive, like I said before, and I don't want to do that to myself.

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