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[FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=DarkOrchid]If you feel like he NEEDS you (as opposed to "loves") that badly then your relationship is not right and that would explain why you're making eyes at other guys. Firstly, that IS being unfaithful, because please don't tell me you haven't imagined being intimate with this Polish dude!

Secondly, don't be so naive to think that your boyfriend hasn't noticed what's going on. Even if he doesn't know about the exchange of e-mail addresses or somehow not seen the exchange of looks, he will know that your mind is on somebody else. He DOESN'T need that.

If you are not committed to your boyfriend then don't mess him around while you wait for the next guy to come along. Be up front. Because if you leave him dangling then he is far more likely to harm himself when you do leave and he realises what a fool you have taken him for and that you didn't love him for the last few weeks or months. Don't do it to him. Please!

And by the way, academic qualifications don't make you mature in relationships! And if I was lucky enough to be in a loving relationship then there is absolutely NO doubt that I would honour it, no matter who I bumped into in the supermarket. This has made me quite mad to be honest!

I don't like to be rash in my judgment but you essentially asked us to validate your actions when it seems like you've already made up your mind. Tell me this: will you share your e-mail replies from this guy with your boyfriend? Will you invite him when you go for that "innocent" first drink? Of course not! Does that not answer your question? I think you're being deceitful as well as unfaithful. But hey, I'm just a traditional guy in a messed up world! Knock yourself out![/COLOR][/FONT]





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