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[QUOTE=stacykgb20]Wow, I'm so sorry to hear all this. I can't believe your boyfriend would use something so private and sensitive against you in what he seemed to hope was an effort to make you furious. It sounds to me like he's trying to get you to leave him because he doesn't have the guts to leave you. I'm sorry to say that, but when someone says that it would be better if you broke up, it's a pretty definite sign that they see the end as imminent. For what it's worth, I think the way your boyfriend has treated you on multiple occasions now is atrocious--it's certainly not nearly the way you deserve to be treated. Healthy and happy relationships depend on mutual respect, consideration, and trust, and unfortunately, your BF seems incapable of showing you any of these qualities. I hate to be a downer, but I think that you are likely to end up even more hurt than you already are feeling if you don't walk away. If he was the right man for you, he would not treat you so rudely, cruelly, and assume you are cheating just because you wear perfume, let your phone go to voicemail, or want a private session with your doctor. Anyway, I really am sorry for you, and I'm sorry for being so negative, but I just don't see this guy being capable of treating you the way you, or anyone else, should be treated by someone who loves them.[/QUOTE]

I agree with Stacy completely. I think your boyfriend is acting horrible and punishing you for something that you didn't do. I can't see him being a loving and supportive boyfriend, either. For god's sakes, it's just perfume!!! And to become so irrate over a perfume and tell you that you smell like a "hooker"?? He has major issues.

I am also extremely sorry that your mother is so incredibly selfish and doesn't care how her choice of profession is a disgrace to her daughter. But like Greeneyes said, YOU ARE NOT YOUR MOTHER and you shouldn't have to pay for her behavior. It's not "your past"; you didn't do anything and you don't have control over what your mother does with her life. I have to tell you though, a lot of men would not be thrilled to find out their girlfriend's mom (and potentially their future mother in law) is an escort. I would suggest you don't tell this to anyone you date until you know him very well and know he loves you and is serious about you. Man, it is SO unfair to you! If it were me, I think I would move to a different city as far away from my mother as possible and I would not introduce my boyfriend to her. You sound like a smart woman with a good head on your shoulders who has a good heart and a lot to offer a man---you should not have to be accountable for another adult's choices in life, even if it's your mother.

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