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You're not meant to be alone, but like most things in life, if you want something, you have to work for it. No one ever landed their dream job without hard work. It's the same with a personal life. Now, I can understand how having a friend with benefits can be a lot of fun. But personally, I would get bored with that, no matter how great the sex is. None of us are getting younger and some of us do want something more meaningful. I suspect you're one of those people. So I would say it's probably a good thing if this Raj guy has lost interest. I can also understand being tired on Fridays, but I know if I had a date on Friday, I would be excited and not cancel. I think you need to ask yourself if there was another reason you cancelled. Cause you had two guys interested in you. One you cancelled on and the other you've been stalling on. Is there some other reason you're not wanting to meet these guys?
[QUOTE=DonutsNCoffee] I can also understand being tired on Fridays, but I know if I had a date on Friday, I would be excited and not cancel. I think you need to ask yourself if there was another reason you cancelled. Cause you had two guys interested in you. One you cancelled on and the other you've been stalling on. Is there some other reason you're not wanting to meet these guys?[/QUOTE]

That's exactly what I was wondering about too. I guess you must have not been that interested and excited about this guy Neal if you cancelled on him. I know when I'm really excited about someone, it doesn't matter how tired I am--my body will generate that extra energy to see him. You can't blame the guy if he gave up on you--you've been elusive with him for two months! Most guys would have given up much sooner. If you do want to go out with him, I think you should give him a call--it's only so much rejection a guy can take.

As for the younger guy from a grocery store, do you like him? If so, why don't you go out with him? He seems like a possibility. But I'm suspecting you don't like him too much if you are stalling on him and instead of feeling excited about going out with him, you feel down and alone. Hmm, I wonder, if you were to describe your dream man; just a guy you would truly want to be with, how would he be: physically, mentally, emotionally, etc. I am curious. Seems like you're really not that into most of the guys you meet.





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