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Ladies, May I interject?

Please take my following advice from a woman who's been there, done that. I'm 41 and fabulously enjoying life. The things I know now and my life experience, I would like to teach to all of the young people, especially young ladies so they wouldn't have to go through the heart aches I'd gone through.

First, stay in college. Don't ever give that up for anybody. Education is one thing nobody can take away from you. Being educated will bring you to places you can't imagine right now. I've been almost all over the world and fascinating, wonderful things I've seen and experienced - nobody can take them away from me.

Stay busy - even if it's painting your toenails! We'll always be surrounded by men, that's one thing I've learned! Don't worry whether this man you're with doesn't call, so what. I know it hurts, I know you feel rejected, but you know what honey, you get busy [B]yourself![/B] If he calls, don't jump at his beckon-call... no-no.... you're busy studying, getting your hair done, reading a book, going out with the girls, going to see a movie with another guy! Painting your toenails! You deserve to be treated better than that! You are a good person with wonderfu qualities. Only a good man will see and appreciate those qualities.

When you graduate from college and become successful, give back. Nothing warms the heart and humbles a person as giving back to your fellow human being. I volunteer with the local food drive throughout the year. I serve the homeless and mentor kids when I find time.

Travel - there's nothing more to say here. :D You'll see that our problems we are experiencing today is nothing compared to what other people are going through. And oh, the sights! Have you seen the ruins in Belize? Tulum? Chichen-itza? Egypt? Have you ridden an elephant in Thailand? Have you been to the Taj Mahal? Christmas shopping in Hong Kong & Paris? They're fascinating.

Lastly, never stop learning about anything. And all through your adventures, there will be a man who will see the good qualities you'd acquired and would appreciate it every single moment.

Good luck
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OH GOSH GIRLS, me too. BEEN THERE, DONE THAT.............get out and get a life................be too busy for HIM..................Guys LOVE girls that have it 'goin on'. Nothiing would bore me more if i was a guy,than to KNOW that you're ALWAYS GOING TO BE THERE, like a faithful old hound.........BORING........BORING........BORING...............

Even if youre BURNING inside to be with him, DON'T LET HIM KNOW THAT.............................I have a girlfriend, that i have known almost 20 years. She is a dental hygienist, and she ALWAYS HAD SOOOOOOOOOOOO MANY GUYS AFTER HER.......................................She had so many hobbies.............she would water ski, snow ski, work out at the gym, she would even go bungee jumping, or rollerblading (her and I did a rollerblade race once in Manhattan Beach, CA) ANYWAY, she had about 4 or 5 guys that she was ALWAYS dating steadily, and never wanted to committ to any of them......................if BILL couldn't go somewhere, she'd go with JOHN, or STEVE AND BEN, they couldn't keep up with her. Never once, did she sit by the phone............and they were lined up to date her.......................

The one thing she did do, which idon't think i could have done is, she always let the man be the 'smart one' and the 'leader' she sort of played 'dumb' even though she was brilliant....................................maybe that was part of her secret...................her allure..................but that part goes against everything i believe in, but i'm 48 years old girls. I've been married for 25 years, but i was boy crazy from the time i was in kindergarten LOL

Just don't be afraid when he calls to sound really giddy and excited and almost cut him off short saying "Oh my gosh, doug can i call you back tonite, some friends and i are going go-kart racing and (yell in the background) "STEVE TONITE I'M GOING TO BEAT YOUR *** ON THE TRACK!!!!) And laugh, and then turn to the phone again and say to doug "Oh I'm sorry, call me tonite, i should be home by 11:00 or 12:00 I JUST GOTTA BEAT STEVE TONITE - HE DOESN'T THINK I CAN HA HA!!!!!"

And i GUARANTEE, DOUG (or whatever your intendeds name is) will be insanely jealous, and he WILL CALL YOU THAT NIGHT........................And when he does, don't hang on his every word....................act like you are self confident, be nice to him, don't be rude or bitchy, but YOU cut the conversation short, saying how much fun you had go-karting (or whatever) tonite, and you are just exhausted from laughing so hard, and that you'll talk to him tomorrow, BUT DON'T CALL HIM..........................) I guarantee, you will have him in your pocket.....................

Would YOU want to date a guy who has NO life, and waits by the phone for you???????????????????????????????/// ECHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH NOT ME..............................Well, guys feel the same way. GIRLS, KEEP THE BALL IN YOUR COURT.................STAY BUSY............AND YOU WILL STAY INTERESTING TO THE GUY YOU WANT TO 'CATCH'.

Guys are excited by the thought that other guys' want you...............and that you WONT wait by the phone if any of them don't call you.

DON'T BE HIS 'BACK BURNER' GIRL...................ONE HE CALLS WHEN HIS REAL GIRLFRIEND CAN'T BE FOUND..................HE WILL HAVE SEX WITH YOU, BUT ONLY FOR HIS SELFISH 'RELEASE'..................IT wont mean a thing to him in that situation other than you being his 'on call sperm bank'
Lonely girls are EASY targets for those *******s...........DON'T be a 'lonely pitiful girl.'





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