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He is using you and he is just playing with you - cant you see that?

[QUOTE]he wont see me unless he wants to, he doesnt contact me or anything, this has left me confused and hurt. [/QUOTE] This is his real side. Why are you wasting your time with this jerk? Guys like that dont deserve a second chance.
[QUOTE]I can never talk to him about it because he tells me to shut up and stop being pathetic. He gets mad with me if i ask if i can see him. Last time we were together I made the mistake of contacting him alot but only because he made me feel insecure and I didnt know where he was all the time and i didnt trust him. This time round I'll spk to him once a day or every other day but it doesnt seem like he has changed in the way he treats me.[/QUOTE]
This is what he is really like. And he is not going to change. Dont kid yourself, this guy doesnt have two personalities - he is just plain using you. All that you-are-so-beautiful is just his way of buttering you up. If he treated you like a COMPLETE jerk and never said those things - you would see through him and dump him. He probably figured, if he wants to keep you and use you - he needs to butter you up every now and then. A girl friend of mine went out with a guy, just like yours. He was a real jerk! He would make fun of her in front of his friends, he would never call, he would flirt with girls in front of her etc... BUT when they were alone, he would butter her up alright! He would tell her crap like "you are my beautiful angel", "you bring my wildest dreams to life" -she would just forget all the nasty things he did. Of course everytime he said this, they had sex. - Do you get my point?

Dont waste your breath on this guy. He doesnt care about you! If he did, he would respect you - clearly none of that is happening. Im sorry if Im being too blunt but you need to wake up!! A caring boyfriend - the one who sincerely cares about you, respects you and loves you will not say/do things like this...
[QUOTE]I can never talk to him about it because he tells me to shut up and stop being pathetic. He gets mad with me if i ask if i can see him. Last time we were together I made the mistake of contacting him alot but only because he made me feel insecure and I didnt know where he was all the time and i didnt trust him. [/QUOTE]

Look at him!! he treats you so bad. What kind of boyfriend will say things like to the woman he cares for? Shut up you are being pathetic?! Im telling you, this guy is just using you. You dont need him. You were fine before... You didnt die - what makes you think you wont be fine the second time around?
Girl, you know what to do - dont put up with it. Tell him you are sick of his crap and its over. There are MANY guys out there... Why are you wasting your breath on THIS one????? :confused:





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