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Somehow, you have got to get past this ex-boyfriend of yours. Something is definitely unresolved here between you two. I think it's funny you haven't heard from him yet[/QUOTE]

Hmm, funny or suprising? To me, it's neither. But you're right, it might take him some time because he expects me to chase after him more. I'm not going to, though. One email is all he gets!

I don't even know if I want to get married. I always thought I did, but I see how many marriages just seem unfulfilling or "dead," or someone is cheating on someone, and it disappoints me. What I want is real LOVE. That's the only way I would get married. Because I want to be HAPPY, not just married! I long for something meaningful, and I can't stop until I find it. Life has no purpose without it. The older I get, the more apparent it becomes to me.

No, GE, I can't possibly do the online dating anymore. I've done it for a couple of years, on and off. Never had one good relationship from it. It just doesn't work for me. Some men don't even search for women my age anymore, even though I probably look younger than some people in their mid to late 20s. So I mostly get responses from much older men, whom I'm not attracted to. At least when I do meet guys in person, they are around my age, and a lot more attractive than the online guys who contact me. So many of the online guys lie about a lot of things, or are still in love with their ex-girlfriend, or just looking for casual sex, or looking for I don't know what. I gave it a fair try. But it's emotionally exhausting and just going through the motions doesn't appeal to me. I don't want to be treated like some kind of a merchandise. It's just not for me. I don't like to date ten guys at the same time, and I don't like when a guy is doing the same. It just "dilutes" things too much. How can anyone develop anything meaningful with one person when they can't even keep the details of each of their dates straight?

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