It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....



Relationship Health Message Board


Relationship Health Board Index


One males perspective. I say stay with him. You have low self-esteem. You are an easy mark for him. He is just going to get more pleasure out of watching you "Not" react to his lies. He knows you will get over the whole incident soon. You did before right? He will turn the situation around eventually and guess who is going to be his target. YOU! So stay put little lady. Do your girlfriendly deeds and stop accusing him of things.
Some of us guys love to play with female's heads be it online or not. When we have the right lady or ladies we know we will skate past all of you with flying colors once again. Once your back is turned look forward to the guy jumping back on the computer and continuing with his game. He wasn't done yet. You were just a temporary glitch in the game plan. He will fix things with you no doubt plus continue with his plan of having a great time with his new computer lady or ladies.
So do nothing. You can't possibly have the brains to thwart him at his own game. Remember you are stupid. Don't ever forget that. And don't forget that you are emotionally cold and distant to him. You pushed him to do what he is doing so deal with it and leave him to what he knows best. Now be a good girl and go make him some dinner and bring in the newspaper.
Just a little scenario of what could happen if you refuse to take action.
[QUOTE=HardcoreSamI AM]One males perspective. I say stay with him. You have low self-esteem. You are an easy mark for him. He is just going to get more pleasure out of watching you "Not" react to his lies. He knows you will get over the whole incident soon. You did before right? He will turn the situation around eventually and guess who is going to be his target. YOU! So stay put little lady. Do your girlfriendly deeds and stop accusing him of things.
Some of us guys love to play with female's heads be it online or not. When we have the right lady or ladies we know we will skate past all of you with flying colors once again. Once your back is turned look forward to the guy jumping back on the computer and continuing with his game. He wasn't done yet. You were just a temporary glitch in the game plan. He will fix things with you no doubt plus continue with his plan of having a great time with his new computer lady or ladies.
So do nothing. You can't possibly have the brains to thwart him at his own game. Remember you are stupid. Don't ever forget that. And don't forget that you are emotionally cold and distant to him. You pushed him to do what he is doing so deal with it and leave him to what he knows best. Now be a good girl and go make him some dinner and bring in the newspaper.
Just a little scenario of what could happen if you refuse to take action.[/QUOTE]

Wow! You really get straight to the point, don't you? I love your advice, but couldn't you soften it up a bit? If this woman learns something about herself, then nothing is lost from this relationship. Everyone (including you), I'm sure, has had bouts of low self esteem at some point in their lives. Yes, she needs to leave and that's what she is trying to do.
[QUOTE=HardcoreSamI AM]One males perspective. I say stay with him. You have low self-esteem. You are an easy mark for him. He is just going to get more pleasure out of watching you "Not" react to his lies. He knows you will get over the whole incident soon. You did before right? He will turn the situation around eventually and guess who is going to be his target. YOU! So stay put little lady. Do your girlfriendly deeds and stop accusing him of things.
Some of us guys love to play with female's heads be it online or not. When we have the right lady or ladies we know we will skate past all of you with flying colors once again. Once your back is turned look forward to the guy jumping back on the computer and continuing with his game. He wasn't done yet. You were just a temporary glitch in the game plan. He will fix things with you no doubt plus continue with his plan of having a great time with his new computer lady or ladies.
So do nothing. You can't possibly have the brains to thwart him at his own game. Remember you are stupid. Don't ever forget that. And don't forget that you are emotionally cold and distant to him. You pushed him to do what he is doing so deal with it and leave him to what he knows best. Now be a good girl and go make him some dinner and bring in the newspaper.
Just a little scenario of what could happen if you refuse to take action.[/QUOTE]
Great scenario!! I dont think this should have been "softened up". Evidentally, its just what the OP needed to hear.





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 03:14 PM.





© 2020 MH Sub I, LLC dba Internet Brands. All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!