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Wow Destea, I almost thought you were a friend of mine posting until you mentioned the ages and that you hadn't given him an ultimatum. My friend is in exactly the same position, except she's in her early 30's. I know most people say ultimatums are bad, but I don't think it's that cut and dry. I think sometimes people need a nudge. I have a friend who just started planning the wedding which gave her guy the hint that he needed to propose. :D

From the other side, I just got engaged and I was the one who got nudged. I knew I wanted to spend my life with my boyfriend, but I have a hard time deciding to do anything that seems like it's going to be a really big deal. I haven't finished grad school, I have some debt, etc. so I was dragging my feet thinking my life isn't in order yet. We haven't been together so long, so I could have easily kept waiting, but when I realized he thought I was waiting because I wasn't sure about him, I just pushed all that I aside and said yes. Now I'm completely excited. You can't ever have your life completely in order, you know?

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