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Re: Boring men
Jan 7, 2006
[FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=DarkOrchid]Hey, man, I can relate! I seem to meet a lot of girls who say "You're going to make a great husband one day!". It's a lovely sentiment but it's not what I want to hear right now at the age of 22 :D I wish these girls would make the connection and realise that good husband material is also good boyfriend material! Just because I don't muck around like most guys my age doesn't make me boring; I'm just a bit more serious and mature and that's the way I've always been, but there's plenty about me that's interesting and fun, too! I might not be in trouble with the law, a mid-level drug dealer, clinically depressed, tatooed, in a struggling band, on the dole, or have a habbit of mooning in public, but that doesn't make me boring!![/COLOR][/FONT]
Re: Boring men
Jan 7, 2006
isn't it also funny how they "know" everything about you from just one characteristic as well?? they always generalize. but, you are right. women only "say" they want one thing and chase after another...they say "you'll make a great husband" or that you're "cute". you never want to be "cute" to women, you want to be "sexy"...

but its not their fault. they can't be responsible for how they feel, no one is.
Re: Boring men
Jan 9, 2006
[QUOTE=bluegreeneyeguy]Sophia, Obviously from the responses of some of the posters. This is a real problem. Look beyond NYC.
As for women who date younger men, you once jokingly said, the women were "training them". Men are not to be treated like a dog.
Are some women becoming so afraid of a real relationship that they resort to trying to train a younger man? Train him for what? Life skills. Seems more like training to just cater to their wants and needs.[/QUOTE]

Haha--honestly, Bluegreen, you're taking this way too seriously. Obviously we realize a man is not a dog. :rolleyes: It's an innocent joke about "training" a guy to be the "pefect" husband. Why are you reading into things like that so much?

As for looking beyond NY, well wouldn't that be a catch 22? From what the other posters said, most men in my age range would probably already be married in other places. Maybe with the exception of California. Regardless, I can't move for another year or so, because of my studies, so that's not an option. But thanks :wave:
Re: Boring men
Jan 9, 2006
Sophia, There is no perfect husband. That"s one of the problems men face today. The expectations some women have are unrealistic. :bouncing:
Re: Boring men
Jan 9, 2006
[QUOTE=bluegreeneyeguy]Sophia, There is no perfect husband. That"s one of the problems men face today. The expectations some women have are unrealistic. :bouncing:[/QUOTE]

No kidding. I know that, hence the quotation marks. You can't take everything literally, Bluegreeneyeguy. I assure you that my expectations are realistic.
Re: Boring men
Jan 9, 2006
Boy if I was out in this generation I sure would not pick out a boring man. When I was younger I had two other men ask me to marry them. One was a doctor and so boring that I could go to sleep talking to him. He is now a very big doctor in the State but the night we were out and he started talking about how many kids he wanted and we should have was the last night I went out with him. Just could not see going to bed with him. The next was a Russian interpreter. Now that guy was one hot man. Beautiful and blond. My husband was in the service and that became the biggest temptation of my life. He was hot...........Calm down girl. But I waited for my sailor.

Nowadays with the guys out there I could not go for a boring man. He would have to turn me on or I would not go out with him. Not like days gone by. It would have to be a different type of man. Not conservative probably more of the bad boy but not real bad. He would have to be a lot like me and love sports and life and love. I would definitely make every minute count and seeing I was a virgin when I married I know I would not make it this time. Different time and different place.





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