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Re: Boring men
Jan 8, 2006
This is a very good topic.

I have a friend who is a very nice guy, maybe even a bit towards the boring side, but he didn't get married for the first time until he was 41. It wasn't that he really wanted to wait that long, its just that it took him that long to find the right girl. But he used to always say that the way women are these days, you need to be part rapist in order to get a girlfriend. It's a very good point though. Most women, especially the younger ones, only like the "bad" guys and we nice guys get pushed to the back of the line.

I am 27 and although I don't consider myself to be boring I am definately not a "bad boy" or a wild person by any means. I have a good paying job. I work between 40-45 hours each week and I am responsible in just about every way. I have always had a hard time meeting girls and I think its my nice guy personality that is the biggest problem. Girls just dont seem to realize that the bad guys are the ones that are only going to cause you problems and give you regrets and the nicer guys are the ones that are ultimately going to make the best husbands,fathers, and providers.

I do think there is a difference between boring and lazy though. The girl who posted about the ex-boyfriend who always wore the same shirt, I think that guy was just lazy. He probably felt like it was easier to just put that shirt on then to dig through the closet for something else to wear.

Hopefully, as I get older I will come across girls who are more mature and can realize whats best for them.





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