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Re: Any ideas?
May 29, 2006
Hey guys, it's me again...I have an update on the situation with this girl! No point creating a new thread...

So I have news on the situation...since this whole scenario, nothing has ever happened, i was ignoring her and even though i know this girl liked me, i didn't do a lot about it...

well last night, i was in the famous club of love as i like to call it and she was there...the girl this thread is basically about...

She arrived and came up to me and wanted to buy me a drink...well she splurted everything out...she told me that since January i have been in her head, she really likes me and wants to go out with me...she also wanted to talk to me and literally was all over me all night. At first i thought the reason she came over was because i was initially chatting up another girl and this sparked jealousy off in her...u can't blame me for thinking that...anyway( i was told by her friend later on that she has been talking about me constantly since we had our talk -- i.e. what this thread was all about months ago!)

Anyway, she comes up to me and tells me that she really likes me and always has and wants to start scoring me(scoring over here means when we are out in clubs, we hang out and kiss each other -- not sex like it means in States)

She came up to me and was asking can i give her a second chance because shortly after this thread was made, i was confused and didn't want to wait around for her and i asked her if it's ok if we score other people and she said yeah and i was happy with that so i scored another person that following Saturday night and she did the same, only the person she scored was a friend of mine...i didn't actually mind as we said we could score other people (but deep down i was a bit dissapointed i suppose but nobody knew this)...

I mean i'll give her credit where credit is due, she opened up to me totally and threw her entire feelings out there where they could be crampled on at any moment by me and she hasn't done this to any other guy before so i'm flattered i suppose...

There were moments in the past before this on nights out in particular where i saw her and she tried talking to me and i basically ignored her cos i'm stubborn...so it has been 4/5 months since then ya know?

I'm not gonna hold back, this girl was begging for me to kiss her and to go out with her etc....she said she doesn't care anymore and that she is not hiding her feelings anymore, she also said she has never said this to another guy before...and i believe her cos this girl has her insecurities as i described in the first post of this thread months ago!

So I kissed her for a few seconds last night and kept refusing to kiss her until i talked to her tmro(which was today). So i met up with her and i was my usual calm, laid back and collective self and she said everything she said when we were drunk to my face...and mind u, it was awkward cos we were both stone cold sober!

So anyway, i said yeah grand, just relax and take it easy...let's just take baby steps...

So there u have it...

She was literally begging for me to give her another go...put it this way, i'm going to suss her out, no way am i putting my emotions on the line as yet...it's past the stage where i'm flattered she likes me but i'm not surprised...i am basically gonna suss out if this girl is 1) an emotional wreck and 2) right for me...

One thing that was interesting was she said to me that she just is terrified of her feelings going out there and if she went in a relationship, would love to try make it work...i never gave her guarantees, i was like yeah it's all chill between us, don't worry and she was like quote "Maybe i am not being clear, but basically, i want us to start scoring again...and i really really like you" etc

I dunno man...i'm confused that a girl who literally was so insecure of not continuing scoring me months ago because she thought i was too confident for her that one night after we said we can score other people, she scored my friend in the same group to her deeply regretting it( and me not understanding why cos we said we can score other people) to us basically not talking a lot anymore for around 4/5 months to her begging for me to "forgive her and give her a second chance" coming from a girl who has never opened up like that to any guy before...i mean, **** me, if that does not spell out emotionally confused then i dunno what does...i think i have to be careful what i get myself into...what do u make of it guys?

Then there is the part of me which is concerned this girl is primarily with me for my looks only...so again this confuses me...how does it look to you guys?

PS: Hope you are all doing well and good to see you again... :wave:





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