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[QUOTE=LostMyHeart]No, you should keep talking to her. And you should tell him you are NOT going to stop being friends with her even if you DO get back together. It's not his choice to decide your friends. And the fact that he wants you to stop being her friend because of who she's dating - that's just silly. Who she is dating has nothing to do with you.

I find it quite convenient that he was going to tell you he wanted to work on things since you weren't there to answer the phone. Seems to me that even if you would have been there to talk to him, he would have found some other excuse as to why he couldn't work things out anymore. Hasn't he given you enough excuses already?[/QUOTE]

Actually the person she is dating is my ex from HIGH SCHOOL! when i was like 15, and when i first got with my now ex-boyfriend i was mad at him and told him i had sex with this guy, and i didn't but i told him that i did before i met him. And it drove him crazy and when we broke up i told him i lied to make him jealous and he does not believe me, come on i was 16 when i first met my boyfriend i am 22 now! what the hell! get over it. i didn' have sex with him i lied when i was 16 to make him jealous and it worked. So he dosen't want me to talk to her for that reason. I think it is stupid and i guess i don't understand and he told mr the other night that any other gut that i would be with is going to not want me to talk to my best friend either that they will have the same problem he has, why?? Because i dated him when i was 15? he drives me crazy with this and he seems to love to make me feel bad.
[QUOTE=Emilysmommie05]Actually the person she is dating is my ex from HIGH SCHOOL! when i was like 15, and when i first got with my now ex-boyfriend i was mad at him and told him i had sex with this guy, and i didn't but i told him that i did before i met him. .[/QUOTE]

Ok, for clarity's sake, I just want to make sure we've all got this: you dated someone whenyou were 15. You broke up. then you met Mr. I'll-Tell-You-Who-Your-Friends-Are and when things first started up with him, you had a fight, so make him jealous you told him which one? 1) Ha, you weren't the first one, I had sex with my first boyfriend before you ever came along! or 2) Ha! While you and I were fighting, I slunk off and had sex with my old boyfriend!! I'm confused as to which one you told him. not that there's that much difference, but just to be clear.

[QUOTE=Emilysmommie05]what the hell! get over it. i didn' have sex with him i lied when i was 16 to make him jealous and it worked. So he dosen't want me to talk to her for that reason..[/QUOTE]

Well, no. That's the reason he wants you to believe, but he's lying. The real reason why he doesn't ever want you to talk to your friend again is because he's one of those sick, unbalanced jerkweed guys who ge ttehir jollies out of making their girlfriends jump through hoops just to see how much they can screw with their heads and how deeply under their thumb they can grind you. You must believe this if you never believe anything else about this guy - if you promised to give up your girlfriend forever and kept your word, he would then find something else to make you do or not do in order to "prove your love" to him. And as soon as you gave in to that request, he'd find another, and another, and another, etc. etc. Because that's what he enjoys. The thrill of seeing you cower and tremble at the thought of losing him that you will beg him to tell you how high when he says jump. And by the way, he's wrong. Any decent man who really cares for you will not care who you slept with or didn't sleep with before you met him, and would even do his best to forgive you for being a little immature and trying to make him jealous that way and giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are able to mature.


[QUOTE=Emilysmommie05]he drives me crazy with this and he seems to love to make me feel bad.[/QUOTE]

Now you're starting to get it.





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