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Thanks Everyone.

I just woke up from a 4 hour nap, so yeah, I feel MUCH Better. I didn't get much sleep last night so I think I was a bit cranky anyway :-P

I owe you all so much as you all have always been here for me... Thank You.

Miranda didn't say that we should "only" be friends.. She just said she has some things going on in her life right now and wants to wait until those are taken care of before we jump into anything. She pretty much said we should "start off" as friends. However, she also said she was confused about a lot of things and wasn't sure about the long distance part... So It's hard trying to understand what she is trying to say. I do know she'd like to hang out again, but I must first find out if there's a future here or not because I don't want to be investing in time/money for something that's going to only lead me to a dead end. I don't think all hope is lost with Miranda, but I just don't know if it's worth waiting around to see what happens when another girl could slip right by.

I am glad she was up front and honest so quickly though... That's A LOT more than I can say about some of the other people I dated. Yes, I was hurt, but not nearly as much as past "relationships".

I just hate getting the dreaded "Your so sweet and I do like you, but I think we should be friends right now" speach... It's no fun.

I'm not going to cry over split milk. Sure, It sucks and Sure, It hurts... but there's nothing I can really do about it anyway.

I just have a hard time meeting local people. I am a bit shy when it comes to meeting people, and for those who have been following my threads over the years.. I'm sure you know how nervous I get on first dates. I've *ALWAYS* dated people from online, even when I was 13 (I'm 21 now) so it's just something I'm so used to. I have dated people offline, once a co-worker, and another time my best friends sister... but they both turned out to be nightmares as they already had an "other" boyfriend in the background.

The only place I really get to meet people in person is at work, and most of the people at my job who are my age are married and have kids.

There is one girl at work right now that I'm a bit "curious" about whom I am training. She asked for my Instant Messenger Name and was nice enough putting a sticky thing on my monitor saying "Thanks for all your help!" but I think she may be married as well as she has a lot of rings and is a little older than me.

My friend bryon's roommate's girlfriend has a friend who is single and is looking for someone... however, I just don't know if I want to go looking into that... She is local, but she is a bit younger than me so I don't know if she is looking for a relationship, or just someone to date.

I'm just a big disgusted/hurt/disappointed from this, and past dating experences that I just have very little hope anymore, and have very little willpower to go out trying to find another person just because i'm scared of being hurt once again, and this past date proves just that.

I have *NEVER* had a real relationship... The most serious thing I ever had was about 5 months ago, we dated maybe a month... I never had the true experence of having someone "love" me.

What I can't figure out, I get a lot of great comments from people I've dated, and from coworkers/family/friends about how great of a person I am, and how there are very few guys like me left... but yet, I have such a hard time finding someone.

*shrugs*

I just don't get it. It really sucks being the nice, sweet guy.





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