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[QUOTE=GypsyArcher]Now, not to mention...what you are doing is [I]wrong.[/I] You pat yourself on the back for being such a good guy, but the fact of the matter is you are trying to hone in on somebody's girlfriend, right in front of their face! There is never an excuse for that. The right thing to do would be to cut off all contact with Sara, telling her that when she is single again and wants to date you, then she can call you. Now, I would think that a guy who is so emotionally unstable that he threatens suicide if his girlfriend leaves him would also be the psychotically jealous kind. What if this guy starts coming after you or something? If some girl brought flowers for my boyfriend and fawned all over him right in front of me, I would be [I]livid[/I]. This situation is just bad, bad, bad.[/QUOTE][FONT=Comic Sans MS][COLOR=DarkOrchid][COLOR=Magenta]GypsyArcher[/COLOR], yet again I have no defence. What both you and [COLOR=Magenta]goody2shuz[/COLOR] have just said is making me disgusted with myself. It doesn't help that I was just speaking to my mum about this and she told me to persist until Sara dumps her boyfriend and goes out with me. But my mum never did know what was for the best...

I think I really am going to have to stop pursuing Sara. It's going to be tough, though. This weekend I was planning to invite her 'round to watch a film or something. Like I've said, there would be nothing sexual. But it would still constitute cheating on her part. And it's not right that I encourage that. He might be a fool and a waster but I can't hurt him because I know what it feels like.

But who gives a flying ferret. I'll just spend the weekend alone. I'm used to it. There's really no point in going out with mates in the vain hope of meeting an attractive girl because I'll be labelled as only wanting one thing and most of the girls will probably only want that anyway. The world I inhabit is a seedy place. C'est la vie.

Maybe I'll just concentrate on my running. I was talking to a girl the other night about my ambitions and it made me realise that I had lost sight of them lately. At least if I close myself off with running then I won't run the risk of wasting my tears. I just wish I had someone to share things with, though.

Cheers for being frank, guys.[/COLOR][/FONT]

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