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:confused: my boyfriend is the sweetest lad in the world, he makes me breakfast in bed. tidies up my room, tells my how special i am 2 him. thats why i cant understand a lad like that...can be so nasty. When he looses his temper he has kicked me before, pulled me up by my hair and grabbed me by the throat, and often pushed me over.... even his voice changes,he sounds evil. the change in personality doesnt last long, but i would like it to stop. He says that something clicks in his head and he cant help himself. I want to help him sort out his anger problem... but where can he go??
head for the hills!
just kidding, well maybe not....
he may have BPD, borderline personality disorder.
check out the personality disorder board.
I had a boyfriend who had an anger problem, and while researching anger management, I came across some info on BPD.
Anger isn't the problem, anger is a symptom of the problem, which is his case, anyway.
Of course guys like that act sweet, or else how would they lure anybody in? They're not going to be like, "Hi, nice to meet you." *SLAP*

It is not YOUR job to help him with his anger problem. He has totally crossed the line, disrespecting and abusing you. You owe him n-o-t-h-i-n-g. I tend to believe that people CAN control their actions. But if he honest to god cannot control his, then that is not someone you want to be around, anyway. But it's your life. If you think putting up with a guy being physically abusive can be made up by him acting sweet and making you breakfast in bed, that's your perogative. It sure as hell would never be mine, though. Just be careful.

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