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What I meant wasn't about him being mean, just that people don't mention breaking up and experiencing new things unless they want that and see it in the future. Being in love and young is tough, because many people don't feel ready to give up on dating and meeting new people early on in life. I said what I said because I'm inclined to think that a couple who breaks up even once lacks a long term future, but sometimes that may not be true or may be something that people need to find out for themselves. I guess I'm trying to say that your safest bet is to cut your losses, because if this guy really wanted to be with you in the long run, the chances are pretty good that he'd never think or feel, let alone say, that he's missing out on things by staying with you. This problem may be something that doesn't have an easy fix or solution. Then again, that's just my opinion based on what I've observed, and no generalization is true in every single case. Maybe some more details would shed more light on things, but from what you've said, it sounds like a future split may be inevitable, which is why people have suggested that you deserve better and might want to move on now. I'm not really sure how you can talk to him and make him feel differently if he believes that he's missing out and that he's too young to settle down...if he thinks that, then it's true in his perception of reality, and it will be difficult to convince him otherwise. I personally think that everyone deserves a partner who is 100% sure they want to be in the relationship and would never consider leaving, but I know it's a lot easier said than done to leave someone you love. I'm sorry you're in a tough spot, and I hope everything works out well for you.

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