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You already know that this guy will lie to you to keep you. How can you trust him? Can you really trust anything he says about the baby and the mother? Is it true or is he just saying it to keep you?

The mother wants him back. It's simple - you're not allowed to the house and she's cozying up to his family. To me, that sounds like you're being nudged out of the picture. Think about it - you're cut out of the entire experience of him being a father! It's become their special things - something that they share exclusively. It's a big thing and you're not part of it. Why? Because she says so and he's going along with it. He's invloved in the experience, she's involved, his family is involved. Everyone but you. And you've been made an outsider to the whole thing. In fact, rather than him insisting that YOU, his girlfriend, share in this HUGE part of his life, he's going along with the exclusion and you're left out feeling insecure, angry and confused. That doesn't sound right to me.

While this situation you're in is bound to be really difficult under any circumatances, he's not making it easier. He's making it more difficult than it needs to be and neglecting your feelings. He could step up to the plate without cutting you out. But he hasn't. It would be different if he was trying ... but he's not.

Child or no child, I'm wondering if he's worth sticking with because he's lied in the past and doesn't seem to take your feelings into consideration (beyond lying to you to keep you).

I'm really sorry for what you're going through & hope this didn't come off too harsh :) But I think you deserve better than this.

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