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Is this ok?
Mar 10, 2006
Is it ok for your partner to fancy and flirt with other people?
What does harmless flirting mean? Is there such a thing? Is that ok?
Is it ok for them to hide their phone when they recieve a message from a person who likes them and who they flirt with whilst youre with them?
Is it ok for your partner to lie about where they go?
Is it ok for an ex, knowing if they havent cheated on their partner, just to simply let his or her partner carry on thinking that he/she was cheating?
Is it ok for someone to be with someone when they dont really want to but do so anyway for at least two months?

How do you trust someone again? How do you trust another when two of your past partners have either cheated on you, well both of them might have, and/or left you for them...

How do you get over those awful thoughts? How do you get over feeling so low, of being stripped?

Ive gained my closure but it hurts so bad when i think all he was doing for the last two months was waiting for his current girlfriend to breakup with her boyfriend...
It hurts how he said he never loved me...and I know he never loved me...I didnt make him happy, I made him miserable, the man of my dreams...I tried to make it alright but it was too late...It hurts so bad when I think about how they were meant to be...and now hes the happiest guy going with his new girlfriend...it hurts but im trying to deal with it
I was so happy with him...things felt so right before the last month...
i cant stand it when i think about him not beng in love with me, it just being lust that disappeared...it didnt mean anything, shown by his behaviour- it hurts beyond belief- and hes not to be hated for it...i couldnt have been the right girl for him...of course i wasnt,not after the way i treated him but i did try to make up for it :( i was never good enough
now hes got a better girl :(

i am still in love him with, i feel like being sick when imagining them together playing,laughing and fallin in love...
im stil in love with him but i couldnt bring myself to actually love him...
i wish he cared...i wish it meant something...

ive got to be brave and just take it...but sometimes its overwhelming...i wish i never see them together or see him...i cant go out anymore to my favorite places because now that exams are over, he will be out with her
she will mean so much more to him...shes already met friends of his ive never met...she'll probably meet his family, theyll fall in love...
its easy to say snap out of it and move on...yeah ill be trying to move on but it doesnt help now...the thoughts and images...
it hurts so bad
how perfect they looked etc

Its made me lose my motivation for life, making me realise I dont have that many caring people in my life

Ive been depressed for two months, maybe even longer because of the way he was treating me...
My doctor has put me through to a self help group because its affecting another medical problem I have...and has even suggested pills...she made me see that my depression isnt just due to the breakup but it was one of the causes...
Ive spoken to my university tutor, they say they understand, because they know of my other medical problem...

ive taken this whole breakup thing so badly,,,he made me so happy, i am so in love with him, i thought we had great times together...i thought it meant a lot to the both of us...it was all fake, wasnt it? an illusion? i dont know if i can accept that

i just want to get over this now but i dont know how to :( i want an instant quck fix btu it wont happen will it? i wish i hadnt have seen them together...then i wouldve remained hopeful, and after not recieving his phone call after the three weeks and going on holiday, id have changed my number
INSTEAD I HAD TO SEE THEM
firstly breaking up was the big deal, then him suggesting another girl, leading me to think about him cheating, flirtnig with other girls, then the three week agreement, then seeing him with my own eyes with the girl....why did all this have to happen...there is no reason...just hurt and pain...nothing to gain but to loose...

will the pain go after a while? will it die down?
if i stop going to my fav hang out places and avoid seeing him and her around, then i should be ok?
should i try to pretend it never happend? that he doesnt exist?
how have people dealt with things like this?
im still young and inexperienced, i dont know how to deal with this...im finding it so hard





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