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He actually knows all about this situation….so as long as his ok with it and im hiding nothing from him i have nothing to feel ashamed about. If he wasn’t ok with all this I would of never gotten involved with another girl and respect him. I was FRIENDS with her then meet my bf then yrs later grew feelings for her. Not like she was my gf I meet hm after.This is a situation you cant critisise or judge on. As I used to have the same perspective as you so until I got into the situation myself. a lot of things are easy to judge on when your not in the situation, but when you are in the situation you will be surprised on how your outlook can change. So unless you have been in the situation your self juding me or this situtation like you have isnt necessary. Thanks for your opinon though. I came her to get advice not to for members to try and make me feel bad…
[QUOTE=Crystal^Tearz]He actually knows all about this situation….so as long as his ok with it and im hiding nothing from him i have nothing to feel ashamed about. If he wasn’t ok with all this I would of never gotten involved with another girl and respect him. I was FRIENDS with her then meet my bf then yrs later grew feelings for her. Not like she was my gf I meet hm after.This is a situation you cant critisise or judge on. As I used to have the same perspective as you so until I got into the situation myself. a lot of things are easy to judge on when your not in the situation, but when you are in the situation you will be surprised on how your outlook can change. So unless you have been in the situation your self juding me or this situtation like you have isnt necessary. Thanks for your opinon though. I came her to get advice not to for members to try and make me feel bad…[/QUOTE]
A situtation might be able to change one's perspective but rarely their intrinsic values. We, more often then not, alter our values to feel ok about doing something we used to believe was wrong. There is a big difference in changing one's values based on new, eye opening knowledge and changing them to allow indulgence in a new desire.
And you are right, this site is for expressing our opinion. It isn't to rubber stamp your behavior if we don't agree with it, but rather try to offer you a different perspective, which many posters are looking for. If you are not, that is your choice. It looks like you and I will have to agree to disagree on the definition of just about everything relating to love, committment and fidelity.





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