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I am dating someone who is so very nice and sweet to me. This comes at a time when I really need it. I had been dating someone who, while nice to me in a superficial way, I suspected he was seeing someone else (like he had a girlfriend before he met me, but wanted to have his cake and eat it too), so I felt kind of confused, used, etc.
My problem is, I want someone who is nice to me, who cares about me. I need that, but I don't think I'm physically attracted to this guy. I want to be. I want that to change, but does that ever really change? Is chemistry/attraction instant or can it grow? Will I ever be attracted to this man and if not what do I say? He deserves everything in a woman. I just don't know if I'm going through a phase or if I'm being too picky or sabotaging a good relationship or if the plain truth is I'm just not attracted to the man. (I guess he really picked a winner this time! LOL)
[QUOTE=tigerlillyrose]I am dating someone who is so very nice and sweet to me. This comes at a time when I really need it. I had been dating someone who, while nice to me in a superficial way, I suspected he was seeing someone else (like he had a girlfriend before he met me, but wanted to have his cake and eat it too), so I felt kind of confused, used, etc.
My problem is, I want someone who is nice to me, who cares about me. I need that, but I don't think I'm physically attracted to this guy. I want to be. I want that to change, but does that ever really change? Is chemistry/attraction instant or can it grow? Will I ever be attracted to this man and if not what do I say? He deserves everything in a woman. I just don't know if I'm going through a phase or if I'm being too picky or sabotaging a good relationship or if the plain truth is I'm just not attracted to the man. (I guess he really picked a winner this time! LOL)[/QUOTE]

If you arent attracted now you more than likely never will be, forget YOUR needs and stop leading this man on and let him go on to someone who will be attracted to him.





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