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My husband has a new girl in his office and she's an awesome worker and she's cute. I am very supportive and like her very much because she's a nice person. She just turned 21 and is married to her longtime boyfriend.

My husband works at home so I have had the opportunity to see them interact. There have been times when I could feel that there's an attraction between them and I have chosen to turn the other cheek. There were a few glances here and there which bothered me but I really didn't think anything of it. My husband has told his friends that she's "smokin' hot." I always felt that my husband loved me and that if he was attracted to someone else big deal. Nothing would come of it.

He has gone for lunch with her & her husband, he calls her and she calls him. They talk about work and then chit chat about other things too. He says that the girl invites us as a couple to go out but I have never been told that, nor have I ever joined them socially. So, I feel like I've been excluded. I have mentioned that to him so he is aware that I think he socializes inappropriately with her.

We all know there are multiple people we could all be with and have fun with. I could easily have married someone else and so could have he. Just because you're with someone doesn't mean you aren't attracted to other people. It happens, right? So, I think this girl is definitely someone he would ask out if I weren't in the picture.

So, a couple of nights ago my husband had plans to meet a friend for a beer. I thought he was joining his friend right away, but after he left the house he called the girl to see what she was doing. She was at a local club with some friends, without her husband, so he went there for a beer. My husband said he was going to another bar to meet his other friend and the girl offered to join him so he agreed. Her friends went home. They drove seperately to another bar in town and stayed all night. My husband came to bed at 3:00 a.m. The bars close at 1:00 a.m.

He told me this after we woke up in the morning because he thought it would be a problem. I think he told me because he thought it could get back to me somehow. I got mad and so did he. He said they're just friends and he should be able to have women friends.

Please tell me what you think. I'm having a very hard time with this because I think it's inapropriate behavior for someone who is married. I don't think he's necessarily cheating, but what I want to know is if I am right to think he shouldn't pursue a friendship with this woman.

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