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Lazer, you barely dated. You didn't even see each other much when you were officially dating. She didn't give you the time you wanted with her. No, you don't love her - you love the idea of having a girlfriend. Believe me, if you loved her, you would know - and the idea would be so much easier b/c she would also love you back.

You need to get away from this thread and stop obsessing over this. Don't you graduate soon? Are you getting a job over the summer? Are you going to college in the fall? Stop calling her and worrying about this relationship. The way to get over someone is to distance yourself, cut off the ties. You can't possibly say or do anything that is going to change this girl and how she acts or feels for you. She is a crappy girlfriend who isn't interested in being in a relationship.

If you are calling her - STOP! If she is saying mean things to you, then she is not interested in a relationship. If she liked you, she wouldn't want to hurt you.

Also, you seem to keep bringing up your relationship with her. I don't think she is all that interested in talking about what went wrong, getting back together, etc. From the last chat that you posted, you keep bringing it up and she doesn't want to talk about it. Soooo....move on......STOP obsessing over this one. Call your friends, get a new life....she is not worth it.
Lazer, I have stepped back from this thread b/c it really is getting out of hand. First of all, this is all about YOU and not about her. Remember, you barely had a relationship with this girl. If anything, she wasn't your girlfriend, she was someone you dated a bit. And the beginning of this thread was about you wanting to dump her before prom b/c things were going nowhere with her. And now it has turned into you not being able to deal with her rejection of you.

When you finally realize that this girl just "isn't into you" then you will stop kidding yourself. She is not interested in getting back together. She wants to be casual friends - which might just be her nice way of saying that she really doesn't want a thing.

For now, I suggest you use a diary where you can post all your feelings in one area. It is like this thread is becoming your diary and that is not what this is meant to be. I have to admit Lazer, you really have a problem within yourself. I only say this b/c you are back and forth with your feelings and you are not trying to help yourself in any way what at all. Instead of chagning your thinking, you post on here each day "I can't stop thinking about her..."

How about saying, "I AM GOING to stop thinking about her starting NOW..." I am going to go out and get a life. I am going to stop feeling sorry for myself.


And how many times do I have to tell you that YOU DON"T miss Laura, you are dying over her rejection of you.

So please Lazer, write your feelings in a diary of some sort. Go talk to a friend or even your mom/dad. And stop kidding yourself. It seems Laura has been pretty tough on you and now the people on this board are doing the smae thing. You really have an obsessive personality. Perhaps you need to look at that.


And I would be very surprised if she goes to Jacksonville with you this weekend. Why in the world do you think she would go with you? I think you are just setting yourself up for more rejection - which is something you cannot take right now. You need to cut ties with her. In a way, I wish she would stop contacting you but she is trying to be kind of nice to you and it is only making it harder on you. But seriously Lazer, this girl doesn't even want to talk to you on the phone, what in the world makes you think she would go away with you and your family?????????????





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