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Lazer,
You're on the right track keeping busy and hanging out with other friends. It is natural that you're going to be thinking about her sometimes, like Brook said. My advice to you is to just think of the big picture - are you going to college in the fall? If so, you wouldn't have wanted to go to college with a girlfriend anyway, it takes away from the college experience and would hold you back from meeting the new people that you will surely meet. You won't have to see her over summer, just hang out with your friends, go to work, learn to play an instrument, spend time with your family. Like others have said, it is obviously not about her, it's about you and how you feel about yourself and how you feel when you're alone and not in a relationship. At the end of the day you are really alone even if you are in a relationship. You are not someone else's keeper and you have no control over anyone except yourself. Take this time to wisen yourself and to learn how to enjoy your own company. That way, when another lady comes along, you'll be a lot more attractive anyway. A final word of advice is to not have any contact with her. I made that mistake so many times of trying to call my ex or text or im him, all it did was push him away further and make the possibility of having a friendship more and more farfetched. She told you herself she doesn't want to keep talking to you and she doesn't want to be more than an "aquaintance," but when you still have feelings for her like this, that would be a sad friendship based on you still wanting to be with her and her maybe feeling sorry for you. You just have to have a period of no contact with her. Every time you im her or whatever it's just opening up the wound all over again. She TOLD you she doesn't want to be talking, find that pride you need to force yourself to stop giving in, it will make you feel a lot better and stronger about it. Time heals everything, but that "time" only counts after you're not talking to her anymore, in my opinion. Be strong and keep busy, hugs to you!





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