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Hmmm, I don't know if you're being "fickle." Have you ever felt in love and super attracted to him? Or have you always tried to convince yourself that he would be a good guy for you to be with? If little things about him irritate you to a large degree and you find yourself not wanting to be intimate with him, even though he is doing all the right things and treats you and your daughter well, I can't help but think that you're just physically not attracted to him. In which case all the rationalizing might not help so much. For me, if I'm unable to make love to someone or I don't enjoy it, that's pretty much a sign that I am not going to be able to be with them forever. I mean, can you envision marrying someone who, even if he might be a good husband and step father, but you still cringe at the thought of touching him or having sex with him?? It's OK; we women are always taught that if a guy is nice and good to us, we should feel so grateful that we're automatically attracted to him, but it doesn't work this way. I think women are just as primal as men when it comes to physical attraction, but we just don't admit it. When you don't feel any passion for the man you're with, it's a pretty miserable existance, even though passion itself is not enough. It's tough because nowadays women want the whole package, whereas in the past centuries many women married the man who was the best provider and who simply wanted to marry them.

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