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It sounds a bit more than 'hanging out', and whether over-reacting or not really depends on the nature of their relationship. I trust my girlfriend, but we both agree that being alone with people of the opposite sex is a no-no.

They went to a bar together, so technically weren't 'alone', and it could've been totally innocent yes, but supposing no-one at the bar knew them, they could've been acting like a couple and no-one would have cared.

I think if she understands your concerns, and agrees that it wouldn't happen again, it isn't anything to get too paranoid about, but IMO there is no harm in turning up unexpected every so often just to make sure she is being honest with you (just not to the point of stalking, of course).
[QUOTE=Willapp]It sounds a bit more than 'hanging out', and whether over-reacting or not really depends on the nature of their relationship. I trust my girlfriend, but we both agree that being alone with people of the opposite sex is a no-no.

They went to a bar together, so technically weren't 'alone', and it could've been totally innocent yes, but supposing no-one at the bar knew them, they could've been acting like a couple and no-one would have cared.

I think if she understands your concerns, and agrees that it wouldn't happen again, it isn't anything to get too paranoid about, but IMO there is no harm in turning up unexpected every so often just to make sure she is being honest with you (just not to the point of stalking, of course).[/QUOTE]

I wouldn't show up at a bar unexpected to check up on her, that would only make me look like an ***. If it got to the point of me thinking about doing that then it is time to end the relationship.

I did let her know that the one on one thing with a guy is not something I can deal with. Hopefully she will respect that because to be honest with you I am really happy with her.





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