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Hey folks... I need your input on this...

I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months and she has not given me a reason not to trust her but...

On Saturday she got a call from some guy named "Jamie", she sounded as if she had not spoken with the guy in a while. while on the phone she asked him if he still works with mortgage and said she wanted to talk to him about refinancing. she explained that he is a friend and that was it.

Fast forward to yesterday...

I spoke with her around 7pm and got off the phone to eat dinner. I called her back at 8pm but she didn't answer and returned my call at 9:30pm. When she called I could clearly hear a lot of background noise and asked where she was... she said " I am at the bar with Jamie talking about refinancing " after a few minutes she said she would call me when she got home and she did. She also said she tried to call me before she left on my house line. The house line did ring but the call was dropped and the caller id didn't register anything so I don't know if it was her calling me before she went out. She did call me in front of the guy if that counts for anything.

Fast forward to today ...

She mentions that the dude met her at her house (she lives with parents) and she drove to the bar. They were there for an hour or so.

Anyway I got really frustrated and ended the conversation without mentioning anything about it. I ended up calling her back because I was really pissed and told her I what was on my mind. I explained that I am aggrivated that she went out with this dude with out thinking about how I would feel about it. I let her know that if the roles were reversed I would call her to give her a heads up. I told her we need to talk in person and got off the phone.

She called me back and I let her know that I have issues with her hanging out with guy friends alone. She said "I thought you said you trust me 100%". I told her that I do but hanging out with male friends alone is a no-no. I basically told her that she needs to respect the fact that I don't like that if she wants to be with me. Plain and simple. She said she understand where I am coming from and said that I am NOT being unreasonable. She also said that she doesn't want me to think that she doesn't give a damn about how I feel.

I am really pissed that she hung out with this guy. I know I have issues trusting women so I am trying not to over react...





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