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My now ex-boyfriend came onto me really strong when I 1st met him. Not pushy but it was very obvious that he liked me to everyone and he wasn't shy about admitting it. I wasn't interested at all in the beginning. I thought he was a nice guy but that was it. Well eventually I gave in and went out with him and decided to give him a chance. He is a little younger than me. Everything was going great and he was telling me how much he liked me and wanted to be with me and talking about our future together. He called me all the time. He told me he was the happiest he had been in a long time. Then one day I found his page on the internet and say where this girl had been posting messages for him from another state. Well after exploring a little more I discovered she was also his girlfriend but they never saw each other. I confronted him about it and at 1st he told me they had broken up until I told him she seemed to feel otherwise and then he admitted that they had never actually broken up. He said she was "special" to him but she was not his girlfriend but he didn't want to hurt her. I told him then that what he was doing was wrong and he had made a big deal before about how he thought cheating was wrong and he said he still thought it was wrong. I told him that I guess I meant nothing to him afterall and he said I should know how he felt about me because he used to tell me repeatedly and he said that he had taken me to his home and introduced me to his mother and his uncle and that meant something. Well from that day on the way he acted towards me changed and I asked him several times if he wanted to stop dating and he said no. He no longer told me how he felt about me. I was intentionally tell him things just to see how he reacted. He seemed to like it if I told him how I felt about him. I finally got tired of it and told him to either end it with her or I would tell her myself. I knew he wouldn't like that too much but I had had enough and really wanted to end it one way or another. He won't tell her but tells me to do whatever I choose. I am sure he is mad. What I don't understand is it seems like he was happy with me right up until I found out the truth about him and then he seemed to lose interest. Also if she really meant that much too him then why would he cheat on her to begin with?? I don't want to be with him. I could never trust him. I am very analytical (sp.?) and just want to understand what was going thru his mind.

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