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Ok, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He has never cheated on me well I hope he hasn't, but for some reason I am ALWAYS paranoid about it because of his really suspicious behavior for the following reasons:

First of all I have his aim password ( I know its bad) and he constantly adds these sn's that are obviously girl sn's. The weird thing about it is that I'm 99% sure he doesn't IM them and probably doesn't even know them....I know this because I have stayed on his sn for a while and the girls have never IMed him, I have even IMed some of the girls using another sn and some of them are girls that live in other states... Not only that but I have even typed their user names onto my space, sites where you can meet other people, and found SOME of these girls on it (their sn was on their page therefore I knew it was them), [B]some[/B] of these girls are girls that I know wouldn't even be his type ( I saw their pics)...
I would just like to know why does he do this? What's the point of adding people to your buddylist and not talking to them? Why are they only girls? It bothers me alot because we have argued in the past about talking to people online because he accused me of it even though I haven't...and then I get his password and he has all of these girls on his buddylist and he told me he only has family members and some of his friends on his list.....it also bothers me because he told me that I should block anyone who isn't on my buddylist and I did and I told him to do the same and when I log onto his name he hadn't! :eek:


I know this is also bad but I have his email passwords too ..... although I have not yet found ANY emails from any girls that I don't know, only one by a girl he was talking to before he met me but it was just like a "how are you doing type email", I just find it really weird how every single time he checks his email he [B]immediately [/B] puts it into the trash and then deletes his trash RIGHT AWAY. I make sure I log onto his email before he has the chance to, to make sure I don't find anything "suspicious" :rolleyes:

Also he has the habit of ALWAYS deleting his call history on his phone, and his text messages...... it's like he has to erase all of his tracks...

Another thing that bothers me is that I know he can get away with talking to a girl and say its someone else because he can easily just change the name of the person on his phone. I know he can do this because once my friend called me and he jokingly said how do I know it's really her you can just change the name on your cell and say it's her...


But I also always think to myself that there is no way he can cheat because he works most of the day and when he doesn't he's on the phone with me or he is with me.....He always tells me he loves me, always compliments me and does mostly everything right... I have asked him before if he would ever cheat on me and he says no. But then I go back again pondering my head off on his suspicious behavior which I have stated above...I can't stop myself.....



I am really confused about whether or not I should be paranoid....What would you think? And how can I stop myself from constantly wondering this...I know it's bad that I always have to snoop around but I can't stop myself, the thought of him cheating on me gives me a headache (seriously)...





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