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I have a hard time agreeing with everyone who has the attitude.....oh well all guys do it....
I don't think ALL guys do it, and I do think it's disrespectful to their partner and it can cause very real problems with relationships.
Why do all you women just accept it? I really don't think you like it, you just put up with it because you've been brainwashed that all guys do it.
That mindset is dangerous.....some women also have the mindset that all men cheat, so they just accept it......
to me that's settling, and setting your standards too low.
BTW I had an ex who was addicted to porn, and I went thru too much stress and self-esteem issues to tolerate that any more.
I'd rather be by myself, then compromise my principles with a guy who would rather look at porn than be with me.
Am i the only one?
[QUOTE=rosequartz]I have a hard time agreeing with everyone who has the attitude.....oh well all guys do it....
I don't think ALL guys do it, and I do think it's disrespectful to their partner and it can cause very real problems with relationships.
Why do all you women just accept it? I really don't think you like it, you just put up with it because you've been brainwashed that all guys do it.
That mindset is dangerous.....some women also have the mindset that all men cheat, so they just accept it......
to me that's settling, and setting your standards too low.
BTW I had an ex who was addicted to porn, and I went thru too much stress and self-esteem issues to tolerate that any more.
I'd rather be by myself, then compromise my principles with a guy who would rather look at porn than be with me.
Am i the only one?[/QUOTE]

Actually, watching a porno with my hubby has been extremely theraputic to our sex life, IMO. After 15+ years with someone, we needed some new ideas to spice up our sex life. Neither of us want to bring in others to the bedroom, the Internet pix are slow and, frankly, pretty boring. A few four-hour pornos really seemed to do the trick.

I don't just accept it. I like it, probably more than my man. We've got four DVDs in our "collection" now, and I went to the shop with my sweetie and picked out three of them. I've not been "brainwashed." Who would have brainwashed me? My hubby was raised in the strictest of Catholic households where he was taught that sex for anything other than procreating was a sin.

Sorry, but I like a hot, creative and daring sex life. I'm not settling for anything by watching a dirty movie with my love, my partner, my hubby. Neither of us would rather watch porn than be intimate with each other, but, hey, what's a little background noise going to hurt especially if it turns both of us on and makes what would have been a half-hour run-of-the-mill lovemaking session into a two-hour daring session trying some new things?

Now, for those that feel threatened by their partners watching porn or have addiction problems where it affects daily lives, there's a problem that needs to be addressed. But to just assume that those of us who responded to the OP are brainwashed and we really don't like it is way, way off base.





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