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[QUOTE]If you are good friends and lovers with someone for several years, it's hard to just cut them out of your life if the relationship was good and there aren't hard feelings.[/QUOTE]

Hey, just wanted to pop in and say that I was very good friends with my ex, actually kind of preferred having him as a friend rather than boyfriend. We were very close, had a special bond. However, the moment I realized my boyfriend was unhappy with me still hanging out with my ex, I dropped the ex from my life. No problem. It wasn't that my boyfriend demanded I stop seeing him, I could just tell it made him uncomfortable.

And the funny part is that my boyfriend isn't uptight or insecure - we're swingers, and he likes to see me with other men. But I can understand that me hanging out alone with an ex-boyfriend is an entirely different story. Even though I had lots of fun kickin' it with my ex, I wasn't going to continue doing anything I knew made my baby uncomfortable.

And I still think that in the OP's case, if her boyfriend really respected her feelings he would stop gabbing with his ex altogether, instead of saying "Well, next time we do talk, I'll let you know." That doesn't really solve anything.





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