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Have you ever fallen out of love completely with someone you once loved so immensely?
I feel so hostile to him most of the time, dwell on negative things that he did or said, and feel extremely irritated by anything that he says or does (things as silly as putting more food on my plate than on his, or the noise of typing on his computer, or asking me to watch a programme/film that he likes) .
On top of that, I have absolutely no desire or intention to do things that make him happy. Of course, I don’t like seeing him hurt or offended but I don't get much emotionally involved if this happens (for whatever reason). Even physically, I lost all desire for him.
On Friday, I stayed up till 5 am (while he was in bed) doing absolutely nothing except enjoying my private space, and thinking. The first thing that I want to do when I am back from work is to log in to my pc and just sit at my desk, half-turning my back to him all the time, even when we are talking. it's been almost 5 months since we last lit a candle at night or watched a film together !!!!!!
I have my reasons I guess for this dramatic change towards him, but this is eating my life away. It is an awful feeling to share a place with someone that you feel this way towards. I saw him in awfully mental drunk situations that overshadow any intelligent conversation or lovely time we ever had. I lost respect for him.
Is this a sign of me getting over him? Or has relationships like that survived? Anyone with a similar experience, I would love to hear about your own experiences.

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