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It is pretty clear that you two need to get the heck away from each other, like yesterday. Obviously, you know that it is neither normal nor healthy for a boyfriend and girlfriend to abuse each other, physically, verbally, emotionally, whatever. The whole idea of a partnership is to have someone who makes you feel safe, comforted, and happy. You guys are probably addicted to each other, and all of the highs and lows.

The only thing to do, really, is go cold turkey. You need to not be in each other's lives. What he does when you leave him is none of your concern. If he is really unstable enough that he'd hurt himself when you break up, that isn't your fault. That is on HIM.

The bottom line is, if you really want to stop living like this, then you need to yank yourself out of the cycle. It isn't easy to make changes, especially big ones. But if you want to be happy, then you have to get out of the relationship and work on yourself. Otherwise, you'll stay on the merry-go-round indefinitely. Take care of yourself.





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