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[QUOTE=mikeyboy]Ok... everyone else has pretty much said it. There is no reason to stay in this relationship. For my 2 cents I just want to make you think about WHY you are staying in the first place and WHY he is treating you this way. Your problem seems to be very very common... TOO common even. I have a female friend who is doing exactly what your doing. And honestly, I don't have the same respect for her I used to.

First off... a guy will only treat you this way if he loses respect for you and you LET HIM! I say this because... think about it... he didn't treat you this way when you first met did he? Basically I think people like to push their limits in relationships and see what they can get away with. If you let him get away with one thing, he will do something worst next time, and the more he gets away with the more respect he loses for you!! This is coming from a guys perspective. If I disrespect my girlfriend and she takes it, why should I continue to respect her? Its only going to get worst if you keep taking it. Nobody respects people who take crap from other people... its the worst thing you can do. I'm not attacking you or anything, I just want you to understand why your in this situation and how to avoid it in the future. Believe it or not, its partially your fault. It goes the same for girls who treat guys like crap. Then everyone says girls go for the 'jerks'. Its not that, its just that people are attracted to people they respect. This guy obviously has no interest in you anymore and is only sticking around to use you. I don't think I need to explain why you should leave him because everyone else already has.. and their all right. Good luck.[/QUOTE]
What you are saying is very hurtful. I was abused a lot especially at work and heard it a lot. People normally united with bully and accused me for not standing up for myself and helped him to destroy me if I do, no win cituation. I don't think that good person should push limits and its normal. You can blame person who was raped or robbed or killed that he/she didn't stand up for herself/himself. Things aren't always simple as black and white ans there are lot of different cituations and circumstances. I don't think she should stay with him and it is not her foult as well.
How do you even know that he will not beat a hell out of her if she stand up for herself so she will end up with more than emotional wounds.

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