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Hi people!!

Thanks so much for your reply!!

Its interesting what you guys have been saying and some of it is true and some i'm not sure.. His a capricorn, born on 22nd dec, and i'm a capricorn 7th of jan. With the whole attraction part.. we clicked right away just before and during our relationship and did things both of us never done.. we've been very intimate.. everything except intercourse. I would not have done any of those things if i did not have feelings for him or right . So yes right now i'm very confused.. sometimes i feel like i love him heaps.. and if he doesn't call or acts differently i get all girly and starts panicking...

Our constant fights are over little things like married couple fight about.. i've seen all his imperfections so has he of me. We eat, fart, sleep, shower i even groom him as in (i know sounds gross LOL).. we do things as if we've been together for 5 years. He cleans my teeth.. because his a dentist lol.. so everything of me.. his seen...so i feel incredibly comfortable.. and we laugh alot and joke.. but then when fights like (recently he took pictures of me and i deleted some because it was so horrific haha) and he got so mad.. and passive aggressive.. what a kid..i thought.

Before and in the beginning he would always come over and say hi to my parents etc.. but nowadays he says he feels so overwhelmed and anxiety driven and scared to eat and meet my parents incase he does something stupid and they reject him. He couldn't even eat properly on that night.. but then i tell him its important to me that he treats them good (i'm very close to my family) and to come in say hi etc.. cause its rude sometimes (from an asian background). His chinese, and i'm korean, both born in australia. So there are a couple of culture clashes...

Anyways.. usually when i fall for a guy (bad guys who are no good) i get so anxiety driven and flushed all the time.. i'm like a red tomato haha!.. but with this guy.. i dun get butterflies or anything.. we don't even really date.. usually our life is work, eat, then home..his or mine (sometimes i sleep over). Its always a routine for us....

Sometimes before we went out when i didn't like him.. i always felt so bad because he was always there.. buying me things.. he took in everything i did.. like when i scream and cry because i'm so exhausted etc.. (yes i'm a bit of a weird one lol)..

Sometimes i think he looks good and feel yes its right..and when i look into his eyes i get tears because i think his the one.. but the way he dresses etc when we go out is an issue. When we're just by ourselves.. its less of an issue.. even though it plays on my mind a little.. i don't really care for it. But its when i have to take him to places my friends hang around etc.. that i get nervous because it's embarssing..

Its probably all me.. being all superficial.. i'm probably the one who has to change.. i don't know...


STILL CONFUSED...... >=::::(





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