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I agree with Laylah. Your gf is a hardcore drug using bi-polar car stealer who dates other guys and then texts them behind your back. What exactly do you hope to accomplish with this relationship? Because I can tell you that currently, it's not even worth all of the time you're putting into it, after everything she has done already.

Unless you like the hardcore drug addicted bi-polar car stealing type who dates other guys and texts with them all night long.
Well, I confronted her about the ticket stub, and she said she was sorry to have done it, and that she admitted having told a white lie so that I wouldn't be hurt, and had just wanted to see the movie with me. She does have problems saying no to people, just because she doesn't want to hurt other people's feelings (see my other post), and so I can see her agreeing to go to a movie with someone who's already made that decision because she doesn't want to stir up trouble or be stubborn. And, though the texting other people (especially people that have crushes on her) is annoying, she always tells me what she is doing and doesn't try to hide it. Hmm...I'm starting to think that what bothers me the most is that rather than texting another guy during our movie and knowing it is wrong, she simply didn't suspect that it would upset me in the first place. She was genuinely sorry about having done it when I brought it up later in the day, but told me she hadn't thought at the time that it would bother me. So it concerns me that she didn't think of that in the first place.
[QUOTE=SeeSaw99;2746496]Well, I confronted her about the ticket stub, and she said she was sorry to have done it, and that she admitted having told a white lie so that I wouldn't be hurt, and had just wanted to see the movie with me. She does have problems saying no to people, just because she doesn't want to hurt other people's feelings (see my other post), and so I can see her agreeing to go to a movie with someone who's already made that decision because she doesn't want to stir up trouble or be stubborn. And, though the texting other people (especially people that have crushes on her) is annoying, she always tells me what she is doing and doesn't try to hide it. Hmm...I'm starting to think that what bothers me the most is that rather than texting another guy during our movie and knowing it is wrong, she simply didn't suspect that it would upset me in the first place. She was genuinely sorry about having done it when I brought it up later in the day, but told me she hadn't thought at the time that it would bother me. So it concerns me that she didn't think of that in the first place.[/QUOTE]


so what if she is has trouble saying no? If this is a problem for her, she needs to work on it. What happens if the guy wants to kiss her? Or something else? Or asks her to go on more DATES? She's got to learn not to be so timid and to be more assertive. She doesn't have to be mean or overly aggressive, but moreover assertive and forth coming.

I know her type---it reminds me of someone I used to be...





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