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I am going to jump in here. I have been reading and following this thread for a couple of days now and here's my two cents:
Bottom line - Your man needs to end this madness. Ignore her, walk away from her, don't take her calls,,,whatever. HE needs to do whatever it takes to get rid of her and tell her to "bug off". If I were the girl and the guy I was horning after ignored me and basicially blew me off, I would get the message and move on. Your guy obviously isn't sending her the right message. I kinda wonder if it's not giving him an ego boost and that's why he's not doing what he needs to do. Sick as that may sound, it could be true.
If my husband pulled some weird crap like this I would have his "you know what's" in a ringer.
He needs to get rid of her - Period. End of story. Regardless if he thinks it's trivial or whatever he thinks it is, it's not fair to you or the girl. I remember what I was like when I was 16. I met a 27 yr old man when I worked at an answering service (back in the day before everyone had their own answer machines) He was an architect and a client of the service. He would call in every night to pick up his messages and we kinda started up a phone friendship. Then one day into the office he came. Man 'O Man was he a hottie!:eek: I instantly had a crush on him and actually tried to pursue him! (My mother would have freaked if she knew) Anyway, this guy KNEW there was no way he was going to get involved with a 16 yr old girl. He very nicely told me he was flattered and enjoyed talking with me on the phone, but there was no way it was going to be anything more than that.
And that was that. I left him alone and we continued to be phone friends and nothing more. My point in all this is the fact that had he NOT told me this I would have kept up my hot pursuit of him - Just like this girl is pursuing your boyfriend. Until he tells her "Thank you but no thank you", she will more than likely be a pain in your butt.





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