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My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. Its been pretty serious and we have definitely had our ups and downs (who doesn't, right?). Sometimes I will start picking fights with her for no justifiable reason. I can only think it is because of our past rough spots. Heck, I can write a novel about the past two years about my life, but I wont bore you (or shock you).

Long story short, while omitting details, I tend to get angry at her for no reason. For instance, today while she was on her way to work she gave me a call to let me know. She had a somewhat short and dismissive tone to her as if she didn't want to talk to me. Its very annoying to hear her in a down mood. It makes me feel like crap. Well I ended up asking her whats wrong and like usual she says "nothing". But most of the time I find out that something really is bothering her and it just irritates me more that she wont tell me what it is. She then said "I was HOPING you would come over tonight and hang out with me". Now, I hear that and think that she thinks that I will automatically say no. She is probable also trying to make me feel guilty for no reason. So then I get mad at her and start asking why she has to say thinks in that way. Blah Blah Blah, then she says "look I was in a good mood and you are trying to pick a fight with me. I'm just going to go to work and ill call you later."

Anyone with some real experience out there willing to help me?

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