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Well, I think it's only as much a part of the deal as you want it to be. Just because a really prety girl can get any man she wants doesn't mean you have to let her walk all over you to keep her. If she's the kind of woman who insists on walking on you as a condition of being with her, then she's probably not someone you want to stay with much longer anyway. no,w I'm not saying she IS like that, just IF she is.

Let me ask you - are you ever invited to these dinners or parties or gatherings? The married professor concerns me. Even if there is no hanky panky going on, it's just not appropriate for a married man to be having dinners alone with a single woman. I take neither you nor the professor's wife are invited to come along?

If you are never invited to any of these events or gatherings, then I would say she's pretty much living like a single person. When does she have time to date you?

I wish I had some words of wisdom to give you regarding how to bring up the issue. I would say something like "I don't know how cool I am with you going out on what pretty much amounts to a date with all these guys." But I'm sure there is a better way to get to the point and let her know how you feel, maybe the other posters can help you form what to say and how to broach the topic. This doesn't really sound like anything I would put up with from a boyfriend. Good luck.
My gut just tells me there's more than meets the eye here. I would not be at all surprised to find out that there's sex going on with these guys. Do they take her to fine restaurants and lavish her with nice gifts too? Are all these men successful career men and have lots of money to spend on her? But none the less this is who she is what she's doing...do you want to live like this or do you want someone that includes you in their life. If she's constantly going out with other men...when do you and her go out? Are you a home body that never wants to do anything and this is the only way she gets to have some fun? Is this taking away from time that you want to be with her or do you have your male friends that you go clubbing and partying with? I say that if she is like this then you shouldn't try to change this about her but this is a huge red flag! If you don't like it then get out now! Accept or move on!





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