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My boyfriend an i have been together for a 1 yr and 3 months. our relationship has very rocky times, because he has an anger problem and i think he's just plain immature. i love him, but his constant anger over small crap and he always thinks i'm cheating on him. well on monday, he was looking at my "friend" list on stupid ******* and saw some guy i knew from awhile back (never dated the guy) that i just added....i personally dont take that place seriously, but he obviously does and like freaked out and drew a conclusion that i liked him and was secretly 'talking' to him....no i wasnt and i think that guy is a little weird in the first place so i tried so hard for him to believe me. he left with some friends and wouldnt talk to me all night. then...today i drained my cell battery trying to get ahold of him but he completely ignored me, he was with people early in the morning then he called me around 6'oclock and i tried talkin to him but he just hung p on me, then he left with someone his mom said and i havent heard from him since and i feel like a stalker trying to get a hold of him. He has never once did this and we've been in some heated fights. i feel like he is looking for some excuse to leave me because i dont think it was that big of a deal. i dont know who he is with and i'm scared he's talking to another girl or cheating on me, he has cheated on me in the past but we tried to work it out, he never wants to talk about it so i still have hurt and anger from over the summer when it happened. so that is why i keep thinking he is doing something. i dont know why he is ignoring me my body has been feeling sick and sweaty/cold all days because i'm really depressed about it all. i cant sleep i just end up crying when i try. i know this sounds stupid, but i'm so mad, he cant just ignore me like this, leave with his friends and have fun all day, then get ahold of me when its convenient for him. what should i do? should i go to his house? or let him come to me? This isnt a typical thing for him to completely ignore me like he is leaving me, i feel like i need to talk to him NOW, i've gotten myself worked up over this. I'm so confused, angry, and hurt...i feel like i'm going to go crazy, seriously. he texted monday night and told me we shouldnt be together, but he wont answer his phone, he cant break up with me like this over text NO WAY not after over a year of such a close relationship i feel like he knows me more than anyone has ever! i didnt take it seriously, but after today, i'm freakin out, i need to talk to him.
can anyone give me some advice on what to do here cause nothing i am doing is working.
[QUOTE=kirsten07;2872020]My boyfriend ....always thinks i'm cheating on him. ....he ..... freaked out and drew a conclusion ..... he left with some friends and wouldnt talk to me all night. i dont know who he is with and i'm scared he's talking to another girl or cheating on me, he has cheated on me in the past but we tried to work it out, he never wants to talk about it..... can anyone give me some advice on what to do here.[/QUOTE]

I picked out the parts of your post that I want you to read again. Read this again. You say that he thinks you're cheating on him. He DID cheat on you in the past but you forgave him. You're now worried he's cheating on you while he insists that you're cheating on him. And now you're asking what you should do?

This is simple. DUMP HIM!! First of all, he cheated on you already. That should have been your first clue that he's a total loser. Secondly, he keeps accusing YOU of cheating, when HE is the one who actually did it! In my experience (of which i've had a lot in this area), when the guy starts blaming you for cheating after he has already done so, it's usually because he has started cheating again and he feels guilty about it but would rather blame you than face his own shortcomings and the fact that he's a major loser.

He's an idiot! He's not worth your time! I think you'd be seriously better off if you just dumped this loser who cheated on you and who is most likely cheating on you again and now is blaming you for cheating when you have not cheated on him at all!!

This entire drama is so BS, I think you need to majorly put your foot down and just end it. That's the only thing that I believe would be the smart thing to do. To stay with this guy, who already has an anger management problem as you stated, is a complete and total waste of your time. You're not going to change him and make him a better person no matter how hard you try. He's always going to be an angry, selfish, cheating loser and why in the world would you settle for something like that when you could find yourself a bf who is loving, caring, sympathetic, wonderful and most of all Loyal to you?

Dump this idiot and move on. He's not worth your time, he's not worth your tears, and he's certainly not worth all of the effort you are putting into him. You would be doing yourself a huge, HUGE disservice by staying with this pig.





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