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I'm so mad, I can't xplain how I feel. I have so many mixed emotions. Wen you read my story, tell me wat you think. I left him because of it. We have been with each other for on and off 7years. We have a 1year old daughter. & right now I live with my parents. Well it happened last friday. I went 2my boyfriends cousins house it was a get 2gether, bkuz that saturday his cousin was going to have a party. Well 1of his other couisins(girl), sorry 2say, she's a hoe. She never has liked me. She's the type of girl that doesn't give a ***** and gets around. She won't even respect herself or her parents. She has 3kids from different daddy's. Well I'm a get straight 2the point, a lot of people were there at his cousins house. Then all of a sudden I couldn't find my boyfriend. So I go look 4him and I couldn't find him. He's hurt me so many times. Emotionally, 1time physically. My self esteem is so low bkuz of him. He's good on disrespecting me, I've done so much for this guy. I've been hurt over and over, right now we have so many problems. That there is no trust. And to all women, theres only so much a women can take, to just say 4get it. So I go to his couisins room kuz I heard people talking. Well it was his girl cousin (the 1that has been around) and my boyfriend. They were alone in the restroom. Once I get there they had a smurk on their face and a surprised look. So right there I knew something was wrong. She recently had her boobs done. So since I'm not that gifted on that area he knew I wanted to get implants. Well I knew, I had a gut feeling she showed her tits 2him. Well to me, its disrespect from both of them. & how can his own cousin show him her boobs? Their both cousins. This made me get mad. He then left the room and I asked him about it. He acted stupid and said no. The next day at the party, the disrespect was still there. He was starring at her boobs all the time. N she was glad 2b showing them 2every1. So that made me think. I had told him that if she did, then I was going to tell her something. Why? Put yourself in my shoes. They both disrespected me. N he let it happen. He did nothing to stop it. And she didn't care if she was disrespecting me, knowing I'm in the house, to top things off. And he's the type of guy that I believe wanted to see his own cousins boobs, why? Bkuz that's him, he's 2curious and if he sees boobs for his satisfaction better 4him. Well it turns out that 2day I asked him again about it. I lied 2him and told him that I asked her if she had shown him her boobs and she said yeah. So then he came clean. Now he said that he only saw her scar. Well she had told me b4 that her implant was done through her nipple. So he must of seen them. I got so mad, that I left him. I was made a fool by both of them. And don't think I'm crazy, but my life with him has been so hard. That it only took 1more of his stupid mistakes to make me see that there is nothing we can do on this relationship. Not being able 2trust him, not even with his cousins, its bulls*it. Why did he lie to me? If I didn't trust him b4, how can I trust the things that come out of his mouth. All he does is lie. Did I over react? Or atleast can you tell me was it right for his own cousin to show him her boobs and him wanting to see them? I know he wouldn't of told me if I wouldn't of made it a big deal. How can this happen anyway? He's done so many things to me that this was his last straw. Tell me wat you think, put yourself I'm my shoes. Would you put up with it?

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