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Hi all,

My bf of 2 months started staying over my house for 3 days at a time. 1 week ago today he went to see his therapist in the evening and told me he was coming back which he did not. He didn't even telephone me to let me know. Needless to say I was upset about that and the next day I broke up with him. He had always talked about respecting each other and to me that was a form of disrespect.

I can forgive him for not calling me the night I stayed up thinking he was in an accident when he didn't call me or come back. We are both 50 years old and I feel like I am 16 again. I don't need drama in my life after being married twice already (my 1st husband passed away).

I am been out of the dating scene for a long time due to a chronic illness and since I have been well again I have been dating. I really fell for this guy but there are red flags telling me that this will not be a peaceful relationship. He does not work as he was injured. I work from home and I need my space.

I had a financial problem in which he insisted on giving me some money which shocked me and I honestly did not want to accept it but he kept pushing. He has bought me jewelry, sent me flowers, has been really good to me. I really had a great time with him.

After I broke up with him he is asking for his money back and some of the things he gave me but now he tells me how much he misses me and loves me and that we are soul mates and wants to see me. I am not sure if I want to see him. After 1 week of not seeing him my life is finally returning back to normal. I am scared that if I start seeing him again there will be more surprises that will give me anxiety that I don't need.

I am very confused. Is he playing games with me? Is he acting nice to get back the things he wants? I feel very naive.


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