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Boyfriend In Iraq
May 13, 2007
I am so lost, I don't know what to even do anymore. My boyfriend has been in Iraq now since July. I met him a week before he left. I know, great timing. He came home on leave in January for 2 weeks and had such a wonderful time. We went to Disney World and it was amazing.

Lately he gets so angry with me. He hardly responds to anything I say. I told him yesterday that I wanted an actual conversation with him, but I feel like I get nothing back. He responded by saying that he had a bad day and if I ever guilt him like that again that we are done. He went on, making me feel awful, and I asked him why he kept going on and on about it, even after I said sorry, and he said he wanted to make it "stick" so it didn't happen again.

I can hardly take the threats of him possibly dumping me. He gets so hostile towards me anymore. I can never bring up any issues cause he gets so mad. He never wants to fight with me but he heats up so fast. And he always just ends an argument by saying that he is done.

But all of this is just peppered in and it's always when he is stressed and really really angry. He does tell me how much he loves me, and how he cant wait to be with me, and that he thinks about me all the time.

I am supposed to be moving to Hawaii with him in January 2008. After he is out and when I finish school....he is going to be stationed there. I am also wearing his promise ring.

I just feel so lost. I don't know how to handle him acting so hostile towards me. And when I try and bring any of this up he just gets more angry. If any one has any advice...please....I need something.

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