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i hope this is normal because i would feel reallllly dumb if im the only guy who gets like this. I recently had a big talk with my girlfriend about the ok's and the no's of our sex life. Well, after we talked about all that, she wanted to know what all i had done sexually before i was with her. I asked her if she was sure she wanted to get into that kind of conversation, and she said she was just curious. So i told her. She took it fine, she didnt seem to care. To be honest, i get jealous or really stupid sometimes for no reason. And when i asked her what all she had done, in my mind i was telling myself "dont ask her dont ask her, you dont want to know. Once she tells you, your going to get a stupid feeling because you know what shes going to say." But when she told me, i got a really dizzy feeling, like i had just spun in 50 circles. I dont know why, but i felt horrible. I just couldnt handle it. It was really weird.

If anyone can help or has felt this way or whatever, please give me some advice on how i can overcome this problem of mine
You know I'd be willing to bet that 90% of males would feel like you. I don't think women would understand because with them they usually don't care about what males have done as long as they love them and are faithful, that's good enough for them. But we live in a world where the notion of who sleeps with who between 2 genders is drastically different. If a man sleeps with a bunch of women, he doesn't get shunned for it, if anything he'll get praised by his male friends. Now, if a women has slept with many men, she's called a *****. It's not fair but it's just how it is and nothing could ever change that.

I think men get more sensitive when discussing this matter. It's never pleasant to find out that "someone has been there before." It's like it doesn't even matter if you know your girlfriend is faithful and loves you and would never cheat on you. I don't know why we feel this way but you're not the only one. It's normal to feel weird when your girlfriend describes her past sex life but you just have to learn to deal with it, no matter how hard it is, because women really hate it when you get hung up over this.

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