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Hello - I'm a single mom of 3 school age kids. My boyfriend, with whom has been living with us for the past 3 years is also a single dad of 3 kids. He moved into my house and his kids visit every other weekend. My problem is that he does things with the kids when all of the kids are here together, but he doesn't want to be involved with anything my kids do the rest of the time. For example, my son plays football, basketball and baseball. BF has no interest whatso ever to going to any of his games. He will go to maybe 1 obligatory game a season. Never been to any of the sports banquets, band concerts, plays. I took the kids on a vacation last year to disney, but he didn't want to come. So I took them myself, alone. He told me not to ask him to drive anyone to practice, (I work full time) and he's never offered to help. Now my kids have a dad who lives 40 minutes away, and he makes it to most of their stuff....but is it wrong of me to want my boyfriend to be involved with my kids? They are an important part of my life, but I feel like I'm single because I'm always off alone when it comes to them. But is it wrong of me to to feel that way, since my bf is not their father? Remember he lives with us. He's faithful and loyal to me, but i'm starting to feel alot of resentment. Should I?

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